Eating Disorders

Eating Disorders

What is an eating disorder?
What causes an eating disorder?
What are the signs and symptoms of an eating disorder?
Long-term effects
Types of eating disorder
Getting Help: Diagnosis and Treatment
Helping someone else
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What is an eating disorder?

It’s understandable that our eating habits and body image can feel overwhelming in today’s world. With the abundance of information about healthy diets and increasing concerns about obesity, it’s easy to feel confused about what you should eat. The constant stream of fast-food advertisements featuring thin, attractive models can make it hard not to compare ourselves to unrealistic standards. Many people, regardless of gender, have felt pressure to conform to these ideal images, which can lead to disappointment. Remember, it's okay to navigate these challenges—many of us have been on a diet or struggled with body image at some point in our lives. You are not alone in this journey.

Eating difficulties and disorders can take various forms, such as overeating, undereating, having strict rules about food, or limiting the types of foods you consume. Others may struggle to eat enough, experience bingeing, worry about weight or body shape, or engage in problematic eating habits like making themselves sick, misusing laxatives, fasting, or excessive exercise.

It's important to remember that eating disorders are not solely about food but rather about the emotions and feelings that drive them and those they can trigger. People with eating disorders often use disordered eating behaviours as a way to cope with difficult situations or feelings. Focusing on food can serve as a means of hiding these feelings and problems, sometimes even from oneself.

Eating disorders are serious mental health conditions and can affect individuals of all ages, genders, cultures, ethnicities, and backgrounds. Contrary to common misconceptions, eating disorders do not only affect young girls; they often emerge in childhood or adolescence, and teenagers and young adults are among the most affected.

There is often an association between body dissatisfaction and eating disorders, but these disorders are not simply about vanity or a desire to look a certain way. Eating disorders are serious, diagnosable illnesses; they are not lifestyle choices, phases, or attention-seeking behaviours. Those diagnosed with eating disorders often go to great lengths to hide their condition and keep it a secret.

An eating disorder is a serious mental health condition that is never the fault of the individual experiencing it. Anyone with an eating disorder deserves prompt and compassionate support to aid in their recovery.

What is the difference between an eating disorder and an eating problem?

Eating problem/ Difficulty: When eating habits become unhealthy—such as overeating, undereating, or having overly rigid or chaotic eating patterns—it can lead to an eating problem. An eating problem refers to any difficult relationship with food. However, not every eating problem will necessarily be diagnosed as a disorder.
Eating Disorder: An eating disorder is a medical diagnosis that is based on your eating patterns. It involves medical evaluations of your weight, blood, and body mass index (BMI). Eating disorders are a specific type of eating problem that must meet certain criteria for diagnosis. Eating difficulties can develop into an eating disorder when a person's behaviour aligns with these medical criteria.

Many people believe that someone with an eating disorder will either be overweight or underweight. However, many individuals with eating problems can maintain a relatively normal weight range, especially in the early stages. It's also a common misconception that specific weights are associated with certain eating disorders. A person can experience eating problems and still be in recovery; just because someone has achieved a healthier weight does not mean they have completely overcome the issues that led to their eating disorder in the first place. While dieting may trigger eating disorders for some, it's important to understand that these disorders are not simply "diets that have gone wrong." They are serious mental health conditions.

What causes an eating disorder?

There is no simple answer to the question of what causes eating disorders, as they are complex conditions with various contributing factors. It is important to understand that eating disorders are mental health disorders and are never a personal choice.

Many stereotypes exist about who can develop an eating disorder, and these issues are often blamed on societal pressure to be thin. However, the causes are typically more complex and can affect individuals of all ages, races, and backgrounds. There are numerous reasons why someone might develop an eating disorder, and these causes vary from person to person. A combination of factors, including genetics, biology, psychology, and an individual’s environment, can increase the likelihood of developing the condition.

Certain traits may make someone more vulnerable to developing an eating disorder, such as being a perfectionist, rarely feeling satisfied with one’s achievements, or being overly critical of oneself. Additionally, being highly competitive or prone to obsessive or compulsive behaviours can also contribute to the development of these disorders.

Below are some factors that, when combined, can trigger eating disorders. While these factors are unlikely to directly cause eating problems, they can contribute to their development and continued existence.

Society & Social Media: We are constantly exposed to unrealistic body image messages from the media, which depict models and celebrities as unrealistically young, slim and attractive. Camera tricks, filters, lighting and editing tools can create the illusion that people in media are closer to society's ideal of physical perfection than they really are. Fashion magazines and designers often favour very slim models, promoting the idea that beauty equals thinness. However, few people resemble these models without resorting to extreme dieting. Many struggle with self-esteem and may compare themselves to these images, leading to feelings of inadequacy and potentially harmful behaviours in pursuit of an unattainable ideal
Fat Prejudice: Many people wrongly associate being overweight with laziness, poor intelligence, and unattractiveness, which can heighten anxiety about gaining weight. While size can affect health, fitness level is more important. Overweight individuals who exercise can be healthier than slim but sedentary people.
Low self-esteem/confidence: Individuals with eating disorders often struggle with low self-esteem and tend to focus on specific aspects of their lives, such as their weight and body shape, in an attempt to boost their self-worth. For example, they may believe that losing weight will lead to increased confidence and attractiveness. Additionally, they might think that others will like them more if they conform to society's perceived standards of beauty.
Difficult life experiences: The beginning of an eating problem may be connected to a stressful event or trauma in life. This could include experiences like physical, emotional, or sexual abuse, serious family issues, the death of someone close to you, or pressures at school or work, such as exams or bullying. Initially, you may have lost your appetite due to stress or a desire to conform to a certain image that you believed others would prefer over your true self.
Pregnancy: During pregnancy, your body and nutritional needs change. If you have mental health issues or a history of eating problems, this can be challenging, and some may find their eating issues worsen during this time. Find out more about eating problems and pregnancy from Tommy's, the midwife-led charity.
Physical and mental health problems: If you have physical or mental health issues, you may also develop problems related to eating. A physical health condition can sometimes leave you feeling powerless, which may lead you to use eating or exercise as a way to regain control. Alternatively, an eating problem may arise due to a mental health issue such as depression, anxiety, bipolar disorder, or body dysmorphic disorder (BDD).
Biological and genetic factors: Genetics and biology can influence the risk of developing an eating disorder. Everyone has brain chemicals that regulate hunger and digestion, and some individuals with eating disorders may have imbalanced levels. For instance, serotonin affects mood and appetite, and some may have too much or too little. Additionally, sensitivity to hormones that control hunger and fullness can lead to overeating or binge eating.
Personal History: If you or a family member has a history of eating disorders, depression, or substance misuse, you may be at a higher risk of developing an eating disorder.

What are the signs and symptoms of an eating disorder?

When worries about food, weight, and body image begin to significantly impact your life, it may indicate an eating disorder. Unfortunately, individuals with eating disorders often struggle to recognise their condition. They may rationalise their behaviours by thinking, “Just another half a stone off, and I’ll be happy,” or they might excuse their eating habits by saying, “Today was busy, it’s a special occasion, or I deserved a treat. I’ll eat properly tomorrow,” even though tomorrow often turns out the same. Additionally, they may feel deep shame, thinking, “I’m an ugly, fat pig. Eating junk food helps me forget how bad I feel for a while.” If those around you express concern about your relationship with food, it could be a sign that you are dealing with an eating disorder.

What symptoms should I watch out for?

Different categories of eating disorders often exhibit various physical symptoms; however, many symptoms, particularly mental ones, can be common across multiple categories. At their core, eating disorders are serious mental health conditions that can deeply affect individuals’ lives. They involve significant disturbances in eating habits and can also impact thoughts and emotions. It is crucial to understand that these disorders are not a matter of choice; they are complex, often life-threatening conditions shaped by a blend of biological, psychological, and social factors. If you or someone you know is struggling, please remember that support and treatment are available. You’re not alone in this journey.

Please see below for some of the common mental and physical symptoms of an eating disorder.

Mental:

Fear of gaining weight or an obsession with being thin.
Spending excessive time worrying about weight, body shape, and food.
Having a distorted perception of body size, such as believing you are much larger than you actually are.
Underestimating or denying the seriousness of the issue, or believing there is no problem even after receiving a diagnosis.
Frequently thinking about food throughout the day.
Experiencing anxiety, especially when eating in front of others, which may lead to avoiding social situations that involve food.
Low self-esteem and confidence.
Difficulty concentrating on tasks.
Perfectionism and setting unreasonably high standards for oneself.
Coexisting mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, or obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD).
Engaging in restrictive eating or binge eating behaviours.
Feeling a loss of control over eating habits.
Inducing vomiting or using laxatives after meals.
Exercising excessively.
Maintaining strict habits or routines related to food.
Experiencing mood changes, such as withdrawal, anxiety, or depression.
Finding it hard to concentrate on daily activities like work or studying.

Your relationships with those closest to you can also be affected.

Physical:

Feeling cold or having a low body temperature.
Calluses on the backs of the hands if fingers are used to induce vomiting
Experiencing pain, tingling, or numbness in your arms and legs (indicative of poor circulation).
Noticing your heart racing, feeling faint, or experiencing dizziness.
Having digestive problems such as bloating, constipation, or diarrhoea.
Maintaining a weight that is either very high or very low for your age and height.
Experiencing irregular periods, complete cessation of periods (amenorrhea), or delayed signs of puberty in younger individuals.
Lacking sexual interest.
Struggling with sleep but still feeling tired all the time.
Suffering from stomach pains.
Noticing the growth of soft, fine hair all over your body (known as lanugo).
Experiencing hair loss.
Bad skin and brittle nails due to bad nutrition.
Feeling physically weak and losing muscle strength.
Noticing swelling in the feet, hands, or face (known as oedema).
Having low blood pressure.
Experiencing poor circulation.

After reading the symptoms of the most common eating disorders, you might be starting to wonder if you have an eating problem. To help you assess your situation, consider the following five questions. Answer them honestly: if you check "yes" to two or more questions, it is very likely that you have an eating disorder and should seek help. If you answer "no" to all the questions, it's still possible that you could have an eating disorder not indicated by these common questions. If you're concerned, it's always best to seek medical advice.

Do you ever make yourself sick because you feel uncomfortably full?
Do you worry you have lost control over how much you eat?
Have you recently lost or gained more than one stone in a three-month period?
Do you believe yourself to be fat (or thin) when others say you are too thin (overweight)?
Would you say that food dominates your life?

Long-term effects

Eating disorders are serious, complex, and potentially life-threatening conditions that can lead to severe and long-lasting damage to both physical and mental health.

Potential Long-Term Effects:

Cardiovascular Damage: This includes conditions such as heart failure, arrhythmia, and hypotension.
Bone Density Loss: Osteoporosis and fragile bones can occur as a result of long-term malnutrition.
Organ Failure: Eating disorders can lead to permanent damage to organs, including the kidneys, intestines, and liver.
Reproductive and Hormonal Issues: Chronic malnutrition may result in amenorrhea (loss of menstruation), difficulties in conceiving, infertility, suppressed testosterone levels in males, which can lead to impotence, delayed onset of puberty, or stunted growth in children and young teenagers.
Digestive Dysfunction: Long-term severe digestive issues can include gastroparesis (a condition where the stomach can't empty itself properly), irritable bowel syndrome (IBS), chronic constipation, and tissue damage in the gastrointestinal tract.
Mortality: The extensive physical damage caused by eating disorders can significantly reduce lifespan.
Weakened Immune System: Individuals with eating disorders often experience a compromised immune response which can lead to conditions like anaemia.
Erosion of Tooth Enamel: This is common in eating disorders like anorexia or from purging methods that induce vomiting after meals.
Damage to the vocal cords and throat: Due to stomach acid from inducing vomiting
Chronic Mental Health Struggles: Individuals with eating disorders are more prone to mental health issues, such as depression, which can increase the risk of suicide.
Cognitive Decline: Malnutrition can lead to lasting concentration issues, impaired memory, and damage to brain tissue.
Personality and Behavioural Shifts: Long-term sufferers often experience increased anxiety, rigid thinking, irritability, and social isolation.
Permanent physical underdevelopment: If an eating disorder occurs before or during puberty and is not promptly treated, individuals may fail to reach their optimal adult height or may experience other issues related to stunted growth.
Obesity: Can be common in binge-eating disorders, leading to conditions such as high blood pressure, high cholesterol, heart disease, type 2 diabetes, joint and back pain, and sleep apnoea.

With timely intervention and the right kind of treatment and support, it’s completely possible to make a full recovery from eating disorders! It's encouraging to know that many of the physical effects can improve or even be reversed. Early detection really makes a difference, so getting the help you need can lead to brighter, healthier days ahead.

Having an eating disorder during pregnancy can increase the risk of complications, like:

miscarriage
giving birth early (premature birth)
having a baby with a low birth weight

If you have previously struggled with an eating disorder and have since recovered, it's important to seek extra care and support during pregnancy. If you suspect you might be pregnant or are trying to conceive, discuss your situation with your midwife or GP.

Additionally, individuals with diabetes need to have regular health checks to prevent complications, such as eye issues or other serious conditions. This is particularly important for those with type 1 diabetes.

Please watch the Mind video below to learn more about eating disorders, including signs and symptoms, and where to get help.

Types of eating disorder

There are several different eating disorders that a person can be diagnosed with, and it is possible for someone to transition between diagnoses if their symptoms change. There is often significant overlap between various eating disorders. Generally, these disorders can be categorised into two main groups based on the nature of the eating behaviours and the underlying motivations.

Restricting Disorders: Characterised by a severe restriction of food intake, dieting, fasting, or excessive exercise aimed at weight control, often driven by an intense fear of gaining weight and a distorted body image (e.g., Anorexia Nervosa).
Bingeing and/or Purging Disorders: Characterised by a loss of control over food intake, involving the consumption of large amounts of food, sometimes followed by purging behaviours (like vomiting or laxative abuse) to avoid weight gain (e.g., Bulimia Nervosa, Binge Eating Disorder).

The most common eating disorders include anorexia nervosa (anorexia), bulimia, and binge eating disorder (BED). However, many other disorders exist that, while less common, are equally dangerous to your health. All eating disorders should be taken seriously.

To learn more about the different types of eating disorders, please continue reading.

Bulimia

People with bulimia, also known as bulimia nervosa, are caught in a cycle of binge eating and purging. Binge eating involves consuming large quantities of food, often as a way to cope with feelings or personal problems. Following a binge, individuals may attempt to compensate by vomiting, taking laxatives or diuretics, fasting, or exercising excessively in a process called purging. This cycle can lead to feelings of guilt and shame, often causing individuals to eat in secret or hoard food. Many experience daily cycles of eating, feeling guilty, purging, feeling hungry, and eating again. These episodes of binge eating can be highly distressing, leaving individuals feeling trapped in a continuous cycle.

It's important to note that it's normal for people without eating disorders to occasionally overindulge. However, the binge and purge cycles associated with bulimia can dominate a person's daily life, leading to difficulties in relationships and social situations. People may find themselves organising their lives around shopping, eating, and purging behaviours, often planning their next binge or avoiding social situations involving food because they are self-conscious about eating in front of others. Many suffering from bulimia feel a lack of control when binge eating.

Individuals with bulimia may also fear being discovered by family and friends, leading to feelings of depression, sadness, and anxiety, along with rapid mood changes. They often feel lonely, particularly if their struggle remains hidden.

People with bulimia tend to place a heavy emphasis on their weight and body shape, often viewing themselves as significantly larger than they are and fearing weight gain. Their self-worth may be closely tied to body image, leading to self-loathing and unfavourable comparisons with others. They may frequently check their body shape or weight or avoid mirrors altogether, disregarding others' opinions about their appearance and maintaining a distorted view of how they look. This often results in intentionally bingeing on foods they perceive as unhealthy or starving themselves between binges.

Despite frequently being of "normal" weight and hiding their illness, bulimia can be difficult to detect from the outside. Many people with bulimia maintain a near-normal weight that can fluctuate, and individuals who initially lose weight may eventually gain weight and become overweight over time. Furthermore, those with bulimia are often hesitant to seek help.

Bulimia can lead to serious physical complications that, in extreme cases, could even be fatal. It's important to recognise the potential consequences of bulimia nervosa to maintain overall health and well-being. If left untreated, bulimia can lead to long-term harm to the body and may even be fatal. However, many physical effects of bulimia are reversible or can be prevented from worsening with the right treatment. Eating disorders are treatable, and full recovery is possible. Seeking treatment as early as possible offers the best chance for a quick and lasting recovery from bulimia. If you suspect that you or someone you care about may have bulimia, it's essential to speak with a GP or encourage them to do so. Getting help is crucial, even if only some signs are present. With the right support, the chances of recovery improve significantly. Without appropriate help, bulimia can become life-threatening.

For more information about bulimia and available support resources, please refer to the links below.

Anorexia

Anorexia nervosa is one of the most common and well-studied eating disorders. It is a serious and potentially life-threatening mental health condition that can affect individuals of all ethnicities, backgrounds, and ages, though it most commonly begins during adolescence and early adulthood.

If you receive a diagnosis of anorexia nervosa, it means that you are restricting the amount of food you consume. As a result, you are not getting the energy or nutrition necessary to maintain good health. Anorexia is often misunderstood as just dieting or weight loss, but it is much more complex. It is linked to low self-esteem, negative self-image, and emotional distress. For many individuals, body weight and shape significantly affect their self-worth, leading to behaviours like frequently checking their appearance or avoiding scales and mirrors.

There are two main subtypes of anorexia nervosa:

Restricting type: Characterised by severe restriction of the amount and type of food they eat. Behaviours may include skipping meals, counting calories, and following rigid food rules.
Binge/purge type: This behaviour includes restricting intake, excessive exercise, illness from overeating, or laxative misuse to eliminate food. Individuals may binge (eat large amounts, feeling out of control) and then purge, which can be confused with bulimia nervosa. The key difference is that those who restrict tend to be underweight, while those with bulimia are typically within or above a healthy weight range.

If you experience anorexia, you might find it difficult to think about anything other than food. Many sufferers feel as though they need to be perfect or that they are never good enough.

Many aspects of life are beyond our control, which can be particularly challenging for individuals with anorexia. To cope with this, they may turn to restricting their diet to gain a sense of control. They often establish strict rules about food and exercise, categorising foods as 'good' or 'bad' or only allowing themselves to eat certain colours of food. There is often a fixation on eating foods that are considered healthy or 'clean,' coupled with rigorous restrictions on both their food intake and the amount of exercise they do. Denying themselves food or engaging in excessive exercise can provide a false sense of validation and achievement. This may lead them to discard food or prepare meals for others while refusing to eat themselves, often feeling a sense of pride in their ability to abstain.

Like those with bulimia, people suffering from anorexia may also resort to other methods to control their weight, such as using laxatives or inducing vomiting after eating.

A deep fear of gaining weight often accompanies these behaviours. You may feel anxious or panicky, especially around mealtimes, and find yourself obsessively checking the calories of everything you eat, along with ingredient lists and nutrition labels. It might seem like losing weight isn’t enough, and you may even wish to disappear. Feelings of loneliness or isolation can arise, especially if no one knows about your struggles. You might react with anger and lash out if someone challenges you about your weight or food intake.

All of this can lead to feelings of depression or even suicidal thoughts, particularly if it seems like there is no hope and no way out.

Do you:

Feel tired and uninterested in activities you normally enjoy.
Believe you look overweight or unattractive, despite others telling you that you are underweight.
Use drugs that claim to reduce appetite or speed up digestion.
Spend excessive time thinking about losing weight, constantly checking and weighing yourself.
Exercise excessively, adhering to strict rules about how much you must do.
Have an unusually low body mass index (BMI) for your height, or your weight and height are below the healthy range expected for your age.
Experience rapid weight loss over a short period.
Suffer from collapsing, fainting, or dizziness.
Experience high levels of distress and anxiety, particularly when thinking about food.
Display obsessive-compulsive behaviours, such as using the same cutlery or breaking food into small pieces.

If you suspect you have anorexia, please schedule an appointment with your GP. Acknowledging that something is wrong and seeking help is the first step toward recovery.

Although anorexia is often associated with low body weight, individuals can be very unwell at any weight. Some may experience similar symptoms without being underweight, a condition known as atypical anorexia, classified as Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder (OSFED).

Anorexia nervosa can distort a person's perception of their health, making them believe they are not as ill as they are. Recognising the seriousness of the condition is crucial for seeking help early, which improves the chances of recovery.

Long-term effects of anorexia can be severe, particularly if it develops before or during puberty, as some physical complications may be irreversible if left untreated. Additionally, the mental health consequences, such as depression, low self-esteem, and anxiety, can be serious and may increase the risk of suicide.

Fortunately, it is possible to recover from anorexia nervosa if the condition is identified early. Starting treatment as soon as possible is crucial to minimising the risk of serious complications. Recovery may take time and can vary for each individual, but you can do this, and there is plenty of help available.

Useful websites for anorexia:

Binge eating disorder

Binge Eating Disorder (BED), also known as compulsive eating, involves consuming excessive amounts of food in a short time while feeling unable to stop, even when wanting to do so. Individuals with this disorder often eat even when they are not hungry and continue eating despite feeling uncomfortably full or unwell. Unlike bulimia, this disorder does not include purging behaviours like vomiting; however, some individuals may fast between binge episodes.

People with binge eating disorder may hide and hoard food, eating extra meals in secret due to feelings of shame and embarrassment about the quantities they consume. They might eat mindlessly, especially when multitasking, and tend to eat rapidly during binge sessions.

Binge eaters often feel out of control, as if they cannot stop eating. They may rely on food to cope with difficult emotions, turning to unhealthy foods for comfort or distraction. Finding comfort in food is normal, but it’s concerning if it leads to distress or guilt. Binge Eating Disorder (BED) involves frequent binges and emotional aspects, while emotional overeating is merely a behaviour. If food becomes a primary coping mechanism that dictates life, seeking help is essential.

As with many eating disorders, individuals may experience low self-esteem and feelings of worthlessness, loneliness, and shame. They often struggle with body dissatisfaction and feel helpless to regain control. This can lead to guilt and disgust regarding their lack of control during and after binge eating, perpetuating a cycle of negative emotions, restriction, and further binge eating.

Many isolate themselves, fearing that others will misunderstand their struggle as a simple lack of self-control, not understanding how serious it is. It is essential to recognise that BED is not simply about choosing large portions or overindulging. Some individuals have reported feeling disconnected from their actions during a binge, or they may struggle to remember what they ate afterwards.

Binge episodes can be planned, often involving the purchase of specific "binge foods," or they may occur spontaneously. Some individuals may go to great lengths to obtain food, including eating discarded items or food that doesn't belong to them.

Those with binge eating disorder may impose dietary restrictions or create rules around food, which can lead to binge eating due to hunger and feelings of deprivation.

While BED can affect anyone, it is more common in adults, often beginning in their 20s or later. The disorder may develop from or evolve into another eating disorder.

One significant consequence of binge eating disorder is potential weight gain, leading to obesity, which is associated with serious physical health risks.

These risks can include many problems related to excess weight, such as:

Shortness of breath
Fluctuations in blood sugar
Acid reflux
Type 2 diabetes
High blood pressure
Joint and muscle pain.

It's important to note that BED is not limited to overweight individuals; someone can suffer from the disorder and still be within a healthy weight range, though being overweight is often a sign. To qualify for a diagnosis, someone must experience at least one distressing binge episode per week for three months.

Not all individuals with binge eating disorder will exhibit all the symptoms, and it may not always be obvious that someone has an eating disorder. If you are concerned about yourself or someone you know, seeking help as early as possible is essential for the best chance of recovery. The first step typically involves making an appointment with a general practitioner (GP).

Binge eating, like any eating disorder, can have long-term physical effects, some of which may be permanent or even fatal if left untreated. However, many of these effects are reversible or can be prevented from worsening, and full recovery is possible with the right support and treatment over time.

If you suspect you may have a binge eating problem, assistance is available to address both the physical and mental effects of binge eating. Remember, binge eating is a mental health disorder and not your fault; you deserve help and support.

You can find more information and support via the websites below.

Avoidant/restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID)

Avoidant Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) is an eating disorder that is not motivated by negative body image or a desire to lose weight. Instead, it involves anxiety related to the act of eating itself or a physical aversion to certain foods. Individuals with ARFID may avoid specific foods, types of food, or restrict their overall food intake.

There are several reasons why someone might avoid or restrict their food consumption. The three most common reasons are as follows:

Aural Sensitivity: A person may be sensitive to the taste, texture, smell, or appearance of certain foods, or may only be able to eat foods at specific temperatures. This can lead to sensory-based avoidance or restrictions on their intake.
Negative Experience: Experiencing distressing events related to food, such as choking, vomiting, or severe abdominal pain, can lead to anxiety and fear about eating. This may cause individuals to avoid certain foods or stick to what they consider 'safe' options. Significant worry about the consequences of eating can result in limiting their diet and avoiding meals altogether.
Poor Appetite: In some cases, a person may not recognise their hunger in the same way that others do, or they might have a generally poor appetite. For these individuals, eating can feel like a chore rather than an enjoyable activity, which leads to difficulties in consuming enough food.

It is essential to recognise that an individual may have one or more reasons behind their avoidance or restriction of food at any given time. This means that the examples provided are not mutually exclusive. Additionally, there may be no clear reason or specific event that has led to someone developing Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID). As a result, ARFID can manifest differently in each person.

However, all individuals with ARFID share a common characteristic: they exhibit avoidance or restriction of food intake, which can affect the overall quantity and variety of foods consumed. Some might limit their intake to such an extent that it impacts their physical and mental health. This behaviour can be longstanding or a recent change and may occur alongside other mental or physical health issues.

A diagnosis of ARFID will only be made if there is no obvious reason for the individual's food restriction, such as cultural or religious fasting, allergies, or a medical condition where appetite loss or digestive difficulties are expected outcomes.

Possible signs and symptoms of ARFID often include:

Sensitivity to some types of food depending on the texture, smell or temperature
Only eating food of certain colours
Having the same meals again and again because the range of foods you will eat is limited
Avoiding social situations where food is present
Medical Conditions caused by malnutrition like anaemia
Lack of hunger and forgetting to eat
Feeling full after only a few mouthfuls and struggling to eat more
Eating very slowly or playing with your food, taking small bites and sips. It may take a long time to finish a meal and may feel more like a chore than a pleasure
Being anxious at mealtimes or when contemplating eating

ARFID, or Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder, commonly develops during the first seven years of life, but it can also emerge later and may persist into adulthood. Many people mistakenly view ARFID as simply being a picky eater, unaware of the significant stress and anxiety that can accompany the overwhelming feeling of having to restrict food intake to the point that it negatively impacts health.

Like all eating disorders, ARFID can lead to serious mental and physical health issues, some of which may be irreversible unless the condition is identified and treated early.

Some of the impacts may be:

Becoming underweight: However, it is important to know that ARFID can occur in anyone regardless of weight, and it varies among individuals.
Slow or restricted development: Children and young people with ARFID may experience developmental delays, resulting in slower growth or failure to reach expected height.
Nutritional deficiencies: If a patient has a very limited range of foods they can tolerate, they may miss out on essential vitamins and minerals. This deficiency can lead to imbalances of important minerals in the blood, such as potassium, calcium, and sodium. These minerals are crucial for maintaining good health, and a lack of them can result in various physical health issues. In some cases, it may be necessary to use nutritional supplements to address these deficiencies. In extreme situations where there is a significant risk to physical health, a feeding tube may be recommended.
A significant impact on your day-to-day life: A lack of food and essential nutrients can lead to various problems, including lethargy and brain fog, which significantly hinder daily functioning. Additionally, it can create social challenges, as many individuals struggle to go out or travel due to their eating difficulties. Social occasions can be particularly tough to handle, since so many interactions revolve around food.
Poor mental health: Like many eating disorders, Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) is a mental health condition that often coexists with feelings of stress, anxiety, and depression. You might feel isolated, believing that no one understands that you’re not choosing to eat this way; you genuinely struggle to tolerate the foods that others find easy to eat. It’s not uncommon to feel frustrated or angry with yourself for not being able to “just get over it” and eat like everyone else. However, it is important to remember that this is not your fault. There are underlying reasons for your behaviours, and it is not shameful to seek help and support.

The symptoms of Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder (ARFID) can vary and may sometimes resemble indicators of other eating disorders. If you think you might have ARFID, it's important to make an appointment with your general practitioner (GP) to discuss your concerns. If you're worried that a family member or friend may have ARFID, it's crucial to talk to them and encourage them to seek the appropriate help and support.

You might feel overwhelmed by the idea of changing your eating habits and think that change is unlikely. Alternatively, you may feel that your issue isn’t serious enough to warrant concern. However, it is essential to seek help as soon as you suspect you may have ARFID. Your GP can initiate a treatment plan tailored to your individual needs.

For more information and support, please visit the following websites:

Beat: (ARFID) Avoidant/Restrictive Food Intake Disorder
Endeavour - ARFID carer support group: Endeavour is a support group for parents/carers of young people aged 5-15, with an ARFID diagnosis and/or displaying ARFID and you can refer yourself via the Beat website.
WHAT IS ARFID? | ARFID Awareness UK
Avoidant restrictive food intake disorder (ARFID) | NHS inform
Association for Child and Adolescent Mental Health ARFID Podcast

Pica

Pica is a feeding disorder characterised by the consumption of non-food substances that have no nutritional value, such as paper, hair, soap, paint, chalk, or ice. This disorder can be quite dangerous, depending on the type and quantity of the substances ingested. Often, pica goes undiagnosed until serious medical issues arise, such as poisoning, cracked teeth, intestinal obstructions, or infections.

It’s important to note that small children under the age of two frequently put objects in their mouths as part of their normal exploration and development. This behaviour is common and does not qualify as pica unless it persists into adolescence.

While pica can develop at any age, it is most commonly observed in young children. In later life, it may occur alongside other conditions or eating disorders. The exact cause of pica remains unclear, but some studies suggest it may be associated with impulsivity, stress, or deficiencies in certain vitamins and minerals. As a result, pregnant women and individuals with mental health disorders such as autism, ADHD or OCD are more likely to experience pica.

People with pica typically have a normal appetite and do not struggle to avoid food, which means they often do not suffer from malnutrition like those with other eating disorders.

The most prominent sign of pica is a persistent compulsion to consume non-food items. For a diagnosis to be made, this behaviour must occur for at least one month and cannot be part of a cultural practice. If you are concerned about yourself or someone else, it is essential to seek medical advice promptly to obtain the appropriate treatment and support.

If you or someone you know has ingested a non-food substance that you know to be toxic or dangerous, it is crucial to seek medical help immediately, and it may be necessary to contact emergency services.

How is pica treated?

Treatment varies based on individual needs, the severity of the behaviour, and the underlying causes. This may involve addressing any nutritional deficiencies through supplements, utilising behavioural therapies, treating conditions that could be contributing to pica (such as OCD, depression, or schizophrenia), and possibly using medication or medical intervention if the behaviour has resulted in physical health issues.

For more details, please refer to the websites below.

Rumination disorder

Rumination disorder is a condition characterised by the repetitive and habitual regurgitation of food that may be partially digested. This means bringing up food that you have already eaten and swallowed. It typically occurs within 30 minutes after eating and is usually considered an unconscious learned response, similar to belching.

Unlike vomiting associated with a stomach bug, individuals with rumination disorder do not feel sick or experience involuntary retching. There is no underlying physical health issue to explain this behaviour. Individuals may choose to re-chew, re-swallow, or spit out the regurgitated food.

Rumination disorder can affect people of any age, and the exact causes remain unclear. If rumination develops in infancy, it usually resolves by the time the child is 12 months old. Certain illnesses can produce behaviours similar to those seen in rumination disorder; in such cases, a separate diagnosis will be provided, and treatment should address both the rumination disorder and the underlying illness.

Possible signs of rumination disorder

Re-chewing and swallowing food that has been brought back up
Hiding this behaviour by coughing or covering their mouth
Avoiding eating in front of others or eating before socialising
Experiencing weight loss or failing to gain expected weight
Suffering from malnutrition despite consuming adequate amounts of food
Stomach aches or indigestion
Exhibiting straining and arching of the back, with the head held back and making sucking movements with their tongue
Appearing to find this behaviour satisfying
Dehydration
Oral Health Issues
Feeling hungry and irritable between instances of bringing up food

Rumination disorder can be a challenging condition that may lead to serious health concerns, such as malnutrition, weight loss, dental erosion, and electrolyte imbalances if not addressed. If you or someone you care about is struggling with this issue, it’s really important to reach out to a doctor as soon as possible. They can help by referring you to a specialist who can explore other potential causes for the behaviour and discuss suitable treatment options.

One effective approach for managing rumination disorder is biofeedback therapy. This method focuses on reducing regurgitation episodes through supportive techniques, like re-educating abdominal contractions and practising diaphragmatic breathing. Remember, you’re not alone in this, and there are paths to healing and support available to you.

For more information and support, please visit the sites below.

Other specified feeding and eating disorder (OSFED)

Many eating disorders are diagnosed based on a list of expected behavioural, psychological, and physical symptoms. However, sometimes a person's symptoms may not completely align with the typical descriptions of specific eating disorders. For example, in bulimia, the binge-purge episodes may not occur as frequently as expected, or a person's weight and behaviours might not conform to the usual diagnostic criteria for anorexia

In such cases, individuals may be diagnosed with OSFED (Other Specified Feeding or Eating Disorder), formerly known as Eating Disorder Not Otherwise Specified (EDNOS). Those with OSFED may experience a range of feelings, actions, and physical changes similar to those associated with other eating disorders, but they do not meet all the criteria for a definitive diagnosis.

As with other eating disorders, people with OSFED often attempt to conceal their condition, and they may have been struggling with the disorder for a long time before any physical symptoms become apparent, if they become apparent at all. Any symptoms linked to various eating disorders can manifest in OSFED, carrying the same short-term and long-term risks.

OSFED is a serious mental illness that goes beyond just the way an individual interacts with food; it involves underlying thoughts, feelings, and coping mechanisms. It is just as serious as any other eating disorder, so it is crucial for those affected to seek treatment as quickly as possible to improve their chances of a full recovery.

You can find more information about this condition below.

Orthorexia

Orthorexia is not officially recognised as a clinical eating disorder, so a person who visits a doctor with its symptoms would not receive a formal diagnosis of "orthorexia." However, the term may be discussed when addressing their condition. Orthorexia shares characteristics with both anorexia nervosa and obsessive-compulsive disorder, and individuals exhibiting symptoms of orthorexia might be diagnosed with anorexia if they also meet specific criteria for that disorder.

Orthorexia is defined as an unhealthy obsession with eating "pure" foods. What is considered "pure" or "impure" can vary from person to person. Similar to other eating disorders, the behaviour associated with orthorexia—characterised by an emphasis on "healthy" or "clean" eating—is often a way for individuals to cope with negative thoughts and feelings or to gain a sense of control. Those who engage in this behaviour may experience significant anxiety or guilt if they consume foods they deem unhealthy.

Signs of orthorexia

An obsession with healthy or supposedly healthy diets, along with a tendency to be judgmental about others' eating habits.
Eliminating specific foods or entire food groups from one's diet in the pursuit of better health, which can lead to progressively cutting out more foods over time. This may result in the individual feeling trapped and unable to disobey their own self-imposed "food rules," even if they wish to change them.
Modifying existing theories about healthy eating by adding personal beliefs or interpretations.
Experiencing feelings of anxiety, guilt, or discomfort regarding the consumption of foods deemed "unhealthy."
Mental symptoms such as poor concentration and low mood or depression.
Unintended weight loss.

A healthy, balanced diet is crucial for our physical, mental, and emotional well-being. However, when the pursuit of healthy eating turns into an obsession, it can cause distress and negatively impact both our physical and mental health. This obsession can also affect other important aspects of our lives, including our relationships and work.

If you or someone you know is struggling with symptoms of orthorexia, it's important to understand that this can lead to issues with physical health. An unhealthy focus on healthy eating might cause someone to eliminate essential nutrients or entire food groups, potentially leading to malnutrition. This can result in feelings of weakness and fatigue, which are difficult to cope with. Additionally, not getting the necessary nutrients can hinder recovery from illnesses and may contribute to a persistent feeling of being cold.

If you identify with any of these experiences, please know that you're not alone. It’s crucial to seek advice from a healthcare professional, who can offer support and guidance. While orthorexia may not be officially diagnosed, specialists can help evaluate your feelings and symptoms to find the right approach for you. Remember, all eating disorders are serious and deserve attention, and seeking help is a brave step toward recovery. You are worthy of support and understanding on your journey to healing.

Treatment of Orthorexia

At present, there are no official diagnostic criteria or specific treatments for orthorexia. However, because orthorexia shares characteristics with anorexia nervosa and obsessive-compulsive disorder, treatment typically follows similar methods used for these mental health conditions. This often includes monitoring physical health and nutritional status, providing psychological therapy, and offering dietetic support.

For more information, please take a look at the websites below.

T1DE (Type 1 Diabetes and Disordered Eating) / Diabulimia

T1DE, which stands for type 1 diabetes and disordered eating (also known as ‘Diabulimia’). This condition occurs when a person with type 1 diabetes deliberately restricts or stops taking their insulin in order to control calorie absorption and aid in weight loss.

While Diabulimia is not currently recognised as a formal medical diagnosis, it is a term used by some individuals with type 1 diabetes to describe their experiences.

Individuals suffering from this condition may engage in various eating disorder behaviours, such as restricting their food intake, over-exercising, or purging through means like vomiting, laxatives, or diuretics. The combination of type 1 diabetes and these eating behaviours can lead to significant biological and psychological complications, increasing the risk of developing an eating disorder.

For someone managing type 1 diabetes, the practices of restricting insulin and engaging in eating disorder behaviours can be extremely dangerous. One major concern is hypoglycaemia, which occurs when blood sugar levels drop too low. Symptoms of hypoglycaemia can include feeling disoriented or shaky, difficulty thinking clearly, feeling hungry or tired, sweating, looking pale, experiencing a fast pulse or heart palpitations, and having headaches. If left untreated, severe low blood sugar can lead to loss of consciousness or even death. You can find out more information about this on the NHS website below.

Low blood sugar (hypoglycaemia) - NHS

Alongside the additional health risks that come from having an eating disorder whilst suffering with Type 1 diabetes, you also may have difficulties in many areas of your life, including work, education and social interactions. You may experience social withdrawal or conflict in relationships with family or friends.

Individuals with type 1 diabetes and eating disorders (T1DE) often face additional challenges, including depression, anxiety, and diabetes-related stress. Feelings of low self-worth and shame surrounding disordered eating are also common, and there may be concerns about being judged by healthcare professionals. If you or someone you know is living with type 1 diabetes and experiencing disordered eating, it is crucial to seek help. Addressing any symptoms of T1DE as soon as possible increases the chances of successful recovery.

You can find more information below.

Getting Help: Diagnosis and Treatment

An eating disorder can significantly impact various areas of your life, including relationships, work, school, and both physical and mental health. The first step in addressing any eating disorder is recognising that there is a problem and being willing to seek help.

If you are struggling with eating issues or believe you may have an eating disorder, it is crucial to seek assistance as soon as possible. Admitting that you have a problem and asking for help can be very challenging. Many people feel anxious about reaching out, but it’s important to get support promptly.

If you feel uncomfortable approaching your GP, consider talking to someone you trust, such as a friend or family member, who can accompany you to appointments for support. Alternatively, you can contact an anonymous specialist charity helpline, like Beat's helpline, for confidential support and advice.

While these steps can be a helpful start, to receive more specialised assistance, you may need to speak with a clinician to obtain a formal diagnosis.

Diagnosing an eating disorder

Discussing eating problems can feel daunting. However, the first step toward accessing treatment usually involves talking to your GP or hospital doctor. They will inquire about your eating habits and how you are feeling. This may also include some physical assessments, such as checking your height and weight, as well as conducting blood tests.

Each type of eating disorder has specific criteria that healthcare professionals use for diagnosis. Since GPs do not specialise in eating disorders, they will likely refer you to a specialist or a team of specialists who can assess your needs and collaborate with you to develop a suitable treatment plan.

It’s important to recognise that the diagnosis of eating disorders can sometimes be challenging. If your eating issues do not fit neatly into a specific category, your doctor may hesitate to provide a diagnosis. You might have a complicated relationship with food that impacts your mental health, but doesn’t align with existing diagnostic criteria. Diagnosing an eating disorder can be complex, as many factors must be considered, which could also relate to other issues.

If you don’t receive a referral during your first appointment, don’t be discouraged from seeking help again. Your well-being is important, and it’s okay to keep asking for support.

Beat has more information about how to prepare for speaking to your GP and what to expect during your appointment.

During your initial appointment, your GP may want to weigh and measure you. If this makes you uncomfortable, you can request not to be informed of the results of this. They may also suggest that you schedule a dental appointment if you have a purging disorder, as frequent vomiting can harm your dental health.

What if my GP prioritises weight loss/gain over the underlying emotional causes?

Eating disorders are a type of mental illness, and any weight gain or loss you may experience is typically a symptom of the disorder. While some individuals might mention unrelated weight changes as a factor in developing an eating disorder, it is unlikely that these changes are the sole cause. Focusing solely on weight loss or gain does not address the underlying issues of the illness. Although improving your physical health may involve gaining or losing weight, depending on the specific eating disorder you have, your GP should not focus exclusively on weight as the primary concern.

What if I don’t agree with my GP’s Diagnosis?

If you’re unhappy with the treatment you receive or feel that you have been misdiagnosed, it’s okay to ask if you can see a different GP. You can also look into self-referral in your area. You can access Beat’s Helpfinder HERE.

Beat’s Overturning Bad Decisions (and understanding good ones) page below can also help you understand some of the options available to you.

Overturning bad decisions (and understanding good ones) - Beat

Important: If you're pregnant, tell your midwife and GP if you have an eating disorder or had one in the past. This will help them offer you the right support during and after pregnancy.

Treatment

Treating an eating disorder typically involves addressing mental health and the underlying issues associated with the disorder, as well as monitoring physical health. Regular health checks are often necessary if the eating disorder is affecting your physical well-being.

The type of treatment varies based on the individual, the severity and the specific eating disorder they are experiencing. Your clinician will assess your situation and refer you to the most appropriate service for your needs.

Some of the options available are:

Cognitive behavioural therapy for eating disorders (CBT-ED): This therapy is designed to treat eating disorders like anorexia, bulimia, and binge eating disorder. It helps individuals address underlying thoughts and feelings by breaking down problems into manageable parts, promoting positive change in negative patterns for improved emotional well-being. It's often an effective form of guided self-help.
Family therapy: Family therapy is designed to address issues within the family with the support of a therapist. It is often recommended for younger individuals struggling with anorexia. This approach allows you to explore the underlying causes of your eating disorder while helping your family to better understand and support you. In this treatment method, parents and caregivers play a crucial role and are considered essential members of the treatment team.
Talking Therapies: Treatment for common mental health issues, such as generalised anxiety disorder, depression, panic attacks, phobias, PTSD, obsessive-compulsive disorder (OCD), and health anxiety, can be crucial for addressing the underlying causes of your eating disorder. Available support includes one-on-one therapy, group therapy, online courses, and guided self-help workbooks.
Medication for eating problems: There are no specific medications for eating disorders, but you may be prescribed drugs for related issues like depression or anxiety, such as antidepressants. It's important to combine any medication with therapy, as medication alone is usually not effective. Your doctor will decide if medication is suitable, but the choice to take it is yours.
Online self-help programmes: You may receive support through an online self-help program while waiting for specialist treatment if you have a diagnosis of bulimia, binge eating disorder, or similar symptoms. This program will include short support sessions, either face-to-face or over the phone. If the program is difficult or unhelpful, ask your GP for additional support.
Admission to a hospital or clinic: You may need to go to a hospital or clinic for eating disorder support if you are seriously unwell, other treatments haven’t helped, or your home environment isn’t supportive. Outpatients return home most nights, while inpatients stay for treatment based on their recovery needs. If you are dangerously ill and you are sectioned under the Mental Health Act, you may also be treated against your consent during your stay in hospital, which could involve refeeding, for example, which involves being given food to bring your weight up to a healthy level so that your energy levels and physical health improve. You may be given certain foods for their nutritional value. Or foods that are particularly good at helping people gain weight. This can be a distressing process, especially if you do not want to gain weight. It may be something to discuss with your GP or hospital doctor in more detail.
Dietetic Support: If you are experiencing serious health issues related to your weight or nutrition, it’s essential to consult with a dietitian to create a nutritional plan that addresses the damage done to your body. If you are significantly malnourished and beginning to eat again, it’s crucial to speak with a healthcare professional. They can assist you in safely reintroducing food, as complications can arise if a malnourished person starts eating too quickly.

Your GP should be able to make a referral to all of these services or arrange medication. However, be aware that there can be long waiting lists within the NHS. As a result, some people also consider private therapy, which requires payment for appointments. You can find a private therapist through the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy (BACP). Keep in mind that private therapy may not be an option for everyone due to the associated costs. Alternatively, you could explore free counselling services and support groups offered by Beat, the charity focused on eating disorders. Both of these options are available below.

Recovering from eating problems

Recovering from eating problems means different things to different people. For some, it may mean never having thoughts or behaviours related to their eating problems again. For others, it could mean experiencing these thoughts and behaviours less frequently or with less impact on their lives. Some individuals may still struggle with urges and find themselves battling old habits.

Your perception of your relationship with food and your views on recovery might change over time. At times, you may feel accomplished and happy with your progress, while at other moments, you might long for the past and feel that life was easier before your recovery journey. This can lead to feelings of resentment, making you question whether you were truly fine as you were. Regardless of what recovery means to you, it often takes a long time to achieve, sometimes requiring years rather than weeks or months.

Recovery can be incredibly overwhelming, especially when fears about gaining or losing weight, anxiety about losing control, or worries about your identity without your eating struggles come into play. If you've tried to recover in the past or faced relapses, it's completely understandable to feel like you’re beyond help. Please remember, though, that feeling better is absolutely possible. It may take time, but you are not alone in this journey, and there is hope for a brighter future.

Recovery can be a lengthy process, but many people find treatments to be effective. Symptoms may return after treatment for an extended period; this is known as a relapse and is more likely to occur during stressful times. If a relapse happens, the steps to seek treatment remain the same. The first step is to visit your GP. Using the strategies that worked for you before is likely to be helpful.

What can I do to help my recovery?

Try to limit the time you spend looking in mirrors, checking your appearance, or weighing yourself.
Find Distractions: Some people discover that there are specific times of day or certain activities that can trigger negative urges. You might refer to these as "risk times." During these periods, it can be helpful to engage in activities that require your focus and distract you from these urges. Consider taking up a new hobby or participating in an activity you genuinely enjoy.
Stay away from websites, magazines, and social media that promote weight loss or make you feel negatively about your body.
Rinse your mouth with water or a non-acidic mouthwash: This protects your teeth if you relapse while suffering from a purging disorder. Also, remember to see your dentist regularly.
Be kind to yourself: If you've experienced a relapse, it’s easy to feel like you’ve undone all your hard work. Remember, everyone makes mistakes now and then. This is not a setback; it’s important not to be too hard on yourself. You can overcome this.
Talk to people you trust about how you’re feeling or find a support group: If you find it hard to talk to others, consider writing down your feelings as an outlet instead.
Avoid restrictive diets and practice a healthy eating pattern: Any restrictive diet is likely to cause you to revert to old habits. For individuals dealing with binge-eating or purging disorders, this could mean bingeing when they feel hungry or purging when they are full. Any changes you make to improve your physical health should be discussed and planned with a specialist.
Avoid acidic foods and cigarettes: It's unwise to consume acidic foods, such as fruit juice, during a binge or after purging, as this can further damage your throat and teeth. Additionally, it's important to avoid smoking, as it increases the risk of gum disease and tooth decay.
Keep a food diary: While it may seem counterproductive, reflecting on your eating habits can be helpful. It allows you to identify triggers and patterns in your behaviour, helping you break the cycle. Remember not to punish yourself in this process. You may benefit from having support to ensure a safe and healthy approach.

See below for some sites that you may find useful in aiding your recovery attempts.

Support groups

Support groups where you’re able to talk to others going through similar experiences can be useful to both people with eating disorders and their families throughout treatment and in sustaining recovery. You can access Beat’s Helpfinder service HERE to see what’s available in your area.

Helping someone else

It can be challenging to know how to approach someone if you're concerned, they might have an eating disorder. They may not recognise that they have a problem, or they might deny it. Additionally, they could be secretive and defensive about their eating habits or weight because these topics can be painful or stressful for them.

What should I watch out for?

While the symptoms of an eating disorder can vary depending on the specific type, you will often notice behavioural changes before any physical changes occur. It can be challenging to recognise that a loved one is struggling with an eating disorder. The following signs could indicate that your loved one is experiencing an eating disorder.

Significant weight loss or weight gain over a few months
Denial about unusual eating patterns noticed by others.
Eating a lot of food very fast or eating very slowly to avoid finishing while with others.
Cutting food into tiny pieces to make it less obvious they have eaten little or to make food easier to swallow
Going to the bathroom a lot after eating
Vomiting or misusing laxatives (purging)
Talking critically about their body
Over-exercising - this might involve exercising when not physically well enough to do so, or feeling guilty or anxious about not exercising
Avoiding mealtimes with or eating around others
Wearing loose or baggy clothes to hide their body or make their weight loss less noticeable
Hiding food or food going missing
Taking appetite suppressants, such as slimming or diet pills
Obsessive and/or rigid behaviour, particularly around food, like overly strict dieting and counting calories obsessively
Irritability
Social withdrawal and isolation
Reduced focus on education and work due to illness
Lying about what they have eaten, saying they have eaten earlier or will eat later, or that they have eaten more than they have
Avoiding or lying about the amount of weight they have lost
Eating only low-calorie food, or otherwise limiting the type of food they will eat
In children, smaller stature and slower physical development can be signs

It's important to remember that someone doesn't need to have all the symptoms to be suffering. An eating disorder may not be immediately obvious. It is a mental illness after all, and they can be difficult to pin down.

How can I help?

If someone you care about is struggling with an eating problem, it’s natural to feel very worried about them. You may find it difficult to know how to approach the situation or what to say. You might also be struggling with changes in their mood. You may have even offered support in the past, but they were unwilling or unable to accept.

These circumstances can leave you feeling powerless, frustrated, angry, or even guilty, especially if you are a parent or caregiver who feels you should have noticed the issue sooner. It’s important to remember that it is not your fault and there is nothing you could have done to prevent the eating disorder. However, you are in a unique position to help create an environment that promotes recovery.

People in denial about their eating disorder can react negatively. One approach is to repeat their words back to them in a more positive way, showing that you care and that you are really listening. For example, if they say, “I would be fine if you backed off. You just make things worse,” you might respond with, “What can I do to help that won’t be making things worse?”

Make sure not to take out your frustrations or anger on them. If necessary, ask for a moment to process your feelings and step away from the conversation until you’ve calmed down. It’s crucial to take care of your own needs as well. You can express to them that you care about them and don’t blame them for their reactions, but you need some time to yourself. Let them know you’ll be stepping away to call a friend or go for a walk to prioritise your own well-being. This way, you show your love for them while also modelling the importance of self-compassion.

If you’re worried about someone, encourage them to seek treatment as soon as possible for the best chance of recovery. However, try not to push them too hard. Be patient; their acceptance of the problem may take time, and they might not yet recognise their eating behaviour as a problem. They may view it as a way to cope with feelings such as rage, loss, powerlessness, self-hatred, worthlessness, guilt, or a lack of control. They may also have fears about what recovery means for them and their body.

A good starting point is to show them that you’re there for them and to keep an open mind. Many people wrongly assume that eating problems are linked to specific behaviours or body image issues, but these assumptions are rarely accurate. Avoid trying to interpret their eating problem without listening to their experience, as this could contribute to their feelings of helplessness and make them less inclined to share their emotions or seek support. For those with eating problems, dealing with misconceptions can be a challenging part of their experience.

The best approach is to be gentle and let them know that you’re available to help. Remember, you cannot force someone to accept help, and pushing too hard may cause them to withdraw from you and the support you offer. Do not give up on them. Aim to be understanding and patient. They may already feel guilty about how their behaviour impacts you. Continue to reassure them that you are there to listen and help them find support when they are ready.

You can gently offer your support by discussing their feelings and listening without judgment. Encourage them to consider getting help, but avoid putting pressure on them or being critical, as this could worsen the situation. It’s important to guide them toward seeing their GP, and you might even offer to accompany them to the appointment.

Tips for approaching and supporting someone with an eating disorder

If they reach out to you, respond with compassion and understanding. Reassure them that they are not to blame and acknowledge the distress of their illness. Let them know that recovery is possible.
Talk to others involved about managing high-emotion situations. Create a unified plan to avoid conflicting approaches, which can worsen the situation. Consulting your loved one’s clinician can also be helpful.
Educate yourself about eating disorders and help them find reliable information and avoid poor sources. Look for credible facts and trusted online resources, and steer clear of sites that promote unsafe eating and exercise habits.
Continue inviting them to join family and social activities. If eating is a struggle, plan food-free options like watching a movie, having a game night, or going for a walk. Help them explore new hobbies or return to old ones that they may have set aside. Those with eating disorders can become withdrawn, so it’s important to put in extra effort to make them feel included and avoid isolation.
Find safe ways to discuss the issue. Some people find it helpful to refer to their eating disorder in the third person, saying things like, "What has the eating disorder made you feel?" This approach can reduce feelings of blame and criticism by emphasizing that the problem lies with the disorder, not the person.
Help them set up an appointment with their GP and offer to accompany them to the appointment. Find out beforehand what role they would like you to take. Do they want you there for the whole appointment? Did they want to do all the talking and just have you there as silent support or do they want you to jump in when they falter. Be prepared to change strategies quickly if needed. They may believe they want one thing before the appointment happens, only to find themselves struggling when confronted with the reality.
Write down any concerns you've noticed for discussion during the appointment. Let the person you’re supporting know this, so they’re prepared. If they’ve asked for help, assist them in noting their own observations as well.
At mealtimes, keep conversations neutral and avoid commenting on food choices. Allow your loved one to eat what they feel comfortable with, and refrain from discussing weight, body shape, or diets. Instead, model a balanced relationship with food and exercise.
Reading stories from people who have experienced eating disorders can be very helpful, especially those who are focused on recovery. Testimonials from those who have suffered and recovered can often be found on support websites. You can find may of these in the useful information section below.
Ask your loved one how you can help, whether it's maintaining a regular eating schedule, setting boundaries after mealtimes, or providing a space to share their feelings. If they say to "leave them alone" or that you can't help, acknowledge their distress and remind them you’re there for support if they need it.
Recognize any "enabling behaviours" you exhibit to reduce your loved one’s distress from their eating disorder, such as cleaning up vomit or cooking separate meals. While these actions may seem supportive, they can inadvertently reinforce the disorder and hide its negative effects.
Offer to help them create a shopping list or develop a meal plan together. This way, they can have a clear idea of what to expect for each meal, reducing stress from unexpected changes. Additionally, you can assist them with grocery shopping, as being around food can be stressful for some individuals. For others, shopping online for groceries may also be a beneficial option.
If certain food groups or items seem intimidating, guiding them towards smaller portions may help to prevent feelings of being overwhelmed.
During meals, provide distractions to help them engage. Ask what might be helpful—would they prefer music or the TV on? What kind of conversations could divert their attention from food? It may be useful to collaborate on a list of activities or distractions that can be used not just at mealtimes, but at other times as well.

Everyone is unique and will require different forms of support, but we hope the ideas mentioned above help guide you in finding what works best for you and your loved one. It's also crucial to remember that one of the most important things you can do for your loved one is to take care of yourself. Your well-being matters too.

More Guidance on how to talk to and support someone with an eating disorder

You can also watch Mind's animation about supporting someone with an eating disorder below. It includes tips for discussing their feelings and experiences.

Other Useful Websites

Eating problems | Types of mental health problems | Mind
The UK's Eating Disorder Charity - Beat
Beat services: Finding Support Whether you need 1-2-1 emotional support, want to connect with others or learn new skills, their range of support services can help.
Online eating disorders support groups (Beat)
Hub of Hope: Eating Disorders support
Talk ED
OA Men – Resources for Men in Overeaters Anonymous
Eating Disorders | Feelings | Health for Teens
Eating Problems | Advice for young people | YoungMinds
Be Body Positive - Support for Young People, Parents, Carers & Professionals
Services & Support | First Steps ED
Overeaters Anonymous Great Britain | For anyone with eating issues

If you feel that you or someone you care about has an eating disorder, it is important that you have them speak with a clinician. Getting diagnosed is the first step to treatment and recovery.

If you are concerned about your weight and would like help creating and following a healthy eating plan you may like to speak to our ARRS role dietician.

You can find out more about how they can help and how to book an appointment below.

Primary Care Dietitian - North Arden Primary Care Network

Last Updated 3 Mar 2026